Regret

My post today is going to be a bit more personal than what A and I normally post, but it should be nonetheless interesting (because, let’s face it, we all enjoy glimpses into personal unrest). I’m not really sure if this is a public apology or just a venting session, but regardless, it is a sentiment of regret.

Regret is an emotion that is probably one of the most common – whether we want to admit it or not. We always wonder what we could have done differently in any situation or whether we could change some outcome. Scientifically, regret is actually linked to the orbitofrontal cortex…making it an actual physical phenomenon.

More often than not, regret will lead to guilt. This guilt can be expressed in sadness, shame, embarrassment, sorrow, and remorse.

Personal actions committed of wrongdoing render an unconditional eating of the soul. Nothing is more painful – I would rather saw off my own arm. The worst of any type of regret is when you are unsure of what you regret; knowing only that there was some wrongdoing. Another is knowing you have wronged someone, you know they know, but you both ignore it. And finally, where you both know and are open to it …probably the easiest but no less painful.

So to the people this is specifically meant for (and there are quite a few of you) know I am so sorry for how I have wronged you. All I can do is wish and pray for your forgiveness. For everyone else, take this as a lesson. Always be the best you can be so that you can live without the burden of regret and guilt.

-C

PS: On a happier note, this week A gave me a brilliant idea for a future post on hat-making! This will take me a few weeks to work on so that I can craft a few examples, but it should be pretty spectacular and I am truly looking forward to getting to share it with you all!

Credits:

http://www.dreamstime.com/stock-images-stock-images-black-white-abstract-art-background-image12315234

http://kochis.net/wp/?tag=black-and-white

Five Tips For Husband Hunting

Taxidermy isn’t the only thing people hunt for…husband hunting takes up a major portion of most girls lives. Of course a shinning personality and good character are the most obvious ways to secure yourself an amazing husband, but what about some more specific guidelines? Some of us get lucky, but others need a bit more guidance. Here, I’m going to share some of my favorite pieces of advice that I’ve gotten over the years from everyone under the sun…

 

1. Know how to make a good loaf of bread

I cannot remember where I heard this from, but it is undeniably true. The fastest way to a man’s heart IS through his stomach, and there is nothing better than bread to demonstrate your abilities with!

 

2. Don’t slack off on appearance…ever

 Now I’m not saying that you need to have every hair in place and a fully made face every day,   but please look presentable. No man wants to hang out with a rats nest and raccoon eyes. Even though he will love you no matter what you look like, it never hurts to look your best.

 

3. Don’t be too hard on him.

Did he forget to take out the trash or mow the lawn? Let him know, but let it go. Holding agrudge is never attractive.

 

4. Be able to walk away from technology.

Many girls that I know always have a phone in their hands and a reality show on the television. Being able to spend some time away from the technology and doing something tangiable is not only productive, but also dazzling.

 

5. Share his interests…only if to amuse him.

Even if you’re not always interested in the same things as him, and even if he knows it, just dropping the slightest bit of attention onto them will make him feel important. Which is also important to you =)

(very random pic…hehe)

Good Luck!!!!!

-C

Photos:

http://findmyaccident.com/fmablog/2011/12/01/loaf-of-bread-credited-with-saving-life-of-woman-in-crash-near-glasgow/

http://jpmdesign.blogspot.com/2010/12/make-up-vanities.html

http://www.ilchi.com/tag/dopamine/

http://www.hcbe.net/technology.aspx

http://blog.sifteo.com/2012/04/sometimes-more-is-more-fun-we%E2%80%99re-giving-away-100-free-cubes/